It's my 200th blog post!!!

Am i getting prudish in my old age?

I was reading on the pink news website about the annual Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco, its a celebration of sadomasochism for the gay community. The site states that guys walk round the streets baring their genitals on every street corner, orgies of men fellating and fondling each other. This is a recognised festival day and draws a massive crowd. I guess what concerns me is that for so long gay men have been seen as nothing more than promiscuous sexual beings, moving from one lover to the next with rarely any chance of a relationship in between.

A few months ago i was in a bar in London called 79 CXR on Charing Cross Road, admittedly it is quite a cruisy bar but going to the toilets was quite an eye opener for all the wrong reasons. It was like an orgy down there! Now luckily it takes a lot to shock me, i have been out for a long time and seen my fair share of filthy goings on but that bar is in central london, what if i had been a young gay man who had just been brave enough to take my first steps into a gay bar. In my head i would probably be going through all the awful things i had heard at school about gay bars and then to be faced with that!! It may have just slammed me back in the closet for quite a while. I know there are specific sex bars in London but the majority are not central tourist spots, i dont think i am prudish to want to go to the toilet and not be faced with intense man on man action.

Britney Spears has lost custody of her children and i have to say i am quite relieved! She is not in a healthy place at the moment and seems intent on letting the paparazzi have a field day with every mistake she makes. Imagine the dialogue over the last few months

where's mommy?

she's just gone to get her head shaved

where's mommy?

she is attacking that photographer with an umbrella

where's mommy?

she is in the kitchen eating adult smarties with adult water

where's mommy?

she is delivering a groundbreaking comeback performance tonight at the MTV awards

where's mommy?

she is crying and throwing furniture, we are not allowed to watch MTV anymore

where's mommy?

she has just driven into that car?

where's mommy's driving licence?

no really where is it?


Let's hope this is the wake up call she needed!!

I am off to the cinema this week but what to see, do i see Jodie Foster (she is part of the big gay family! ALLEGEDLY!) or George Swooney in his 5th (performance of his career" role?). Full review of whichsoever coming soon.

Sorry for the delay in the boudoir man but it's been a bowl full of crazy in my head lately!!

THE IMAGINARY MEN OF PIPPY'S BOUDOIR!

Well i thought he had disappeared off the radar but it turns out he has been cracking asia and working on his album, he has also been working on his pecs by the look of things! he is such a sweetie that i had to pop him in! It's Shayne Ward





toodles

xx